作者：胡涛 刘浩天
　　【Abstract】Au Pair mutualism is the first spontaneous youth activity in Britain， France， Germany and other countries， which originated more than 100 years ago. It is a cultural phenomenon： a special custom for young foreigners to learn the language of a country and experience the culture of the country in a host home， and to do some work for the family for the family. Aupair was first introduced into China by commercial institutions （about 2001）， This article studies the problems and the current situation of the Chinese au pair students， and also puts forward some corresponding solutions when discussing these problems. It provides a reference and theoretical basis for some Chinese young people who want to participate in au pair programs and some mutually beneficial platforms.
　　【Key words】domestic style Au Pair; current situation of the market; exist problem; solve method
　　【作者簡介】胡涛，刘浩天，滨州学院。
　　1. The Background and Significance of the Study
　　1.1 The Background of the Study
　　With the development of China， more and more Chinese young people begin to contact western culture. Both western education and Western folk culture have begun to walk into the vision of Chinese people. Many young people in order to better experience this cultural collision caused by cultural differences， accept different cultural and educational ideas， and taste different diets. However， Au Pair is short time to enter and lack of theoretical support and corresponding legal guarantee in China. However， with the development of Chinese cultural strength，， China has begun to pay attention to the gap in the field of meaning and is trying to explore a more perfect theory and a sound platform for Au Pair.
　　1.2 Literature Review
　　Foreign Research
　　Laura Mellini&Carrie Yodanis&Alberto Godenzi studied showed the confuse of the au pair how to play role in the host family that whether the Au pair can be treated as a member of a family， and the host father further shapes how the au pair defines and experiences her role.Dalgas studied tell that au pair project have been carried in Filipina out over ten years， some people think that it is a a way to migrate that maybe increase the payment of domestic workers. They will understand deeply the true meaning of wisdom that is no pay no gain.
　　2. An Overview of China Domestic Au Pair Students
　　2.1 The Definition of the Au Pair
　　Au Pair originated from the spontaneous youth activities of countries such as Britain and France more than 100 years ago. The homestay family will make the au pair a family member， not only provide the corresponding pocket money for the au pair， or study in the country where the target family is located.